“Children do not deserve privacy,” and other abusive myths masked as good parenting
Children who are taught that they donât deserve privacy are in a perpetual cycle of apologizing for receiving it and/or being fearful that it will be rescinded.
Children who are taught that they donât deserve privacy are in a perpetual cycle of apologizing for receiving it and/or being fearful that it will be rescinded.
Supporting Black dispensaries is a necessary strategy to combat these anti-black policies, demarcations and conferences of respectability, access and performance.
This is what the academy wants us to do. Devour with words and hands and thought. Wants us to strip, pull away, entertain. Be monkey.
Why are Black folks only ever allowed to carry what we need, even in death? How are we hoarders if we never get what we need?
Are the ones we âloveâ able to choose death, or is our relationship with them about ownership, possession and obligation? If it is, we are not allowed living or dying as our full selves.
Perhaps this kind of "I don't care what happens to so and so" is also a reinforcement of anti-Blackness.
By Amber Butts Female octopuses die from anemia and exhaustion 2-10 months after they give birth. They spend those months protecting and cleaning their eggs. They do not eat. As my body spread over a cold chair and a doctor…