Embracing ugly in a world that’s tried to weaponize it against me
The impact of being uglified has real, painful, and pervasive consequences.
Without intending to, I subconsciously isolated Blackness from disability as if our history and our present doesnât reflect thatâas if the term âdisabledâ is not perpetually expanding and contracting to accommodate a plethora of other experiences.
It is exhausting to always be this vigilant, and all too often it is still not enough.
Taylor Swift is not copying Beyoncé. Sheâs mocking Beyoncé. This difference assumes a level of intent that brings forth deliberate malice and cultural disruption.