“Good men” and the mythological dichotomy between toxic masculinity and masculinity
When gender non-conforming Bois like me get punched in the face, it’s always our fault
Pondering trans formation as a cis Black man
By Quentin Lucas I once penned a blog entry titled About My Prejudice against the Transgendered. âTransgendered,â by the way, is an offensive term because, Iâve since learned, it turns a descriptive adjective into a constrictive label (âagainst transgender peopleâ…
The double-edged dilemma of performing masculinity.
By Daniel Johnson Performative masculinity traps you in a cocoon of unrealistic expectations. If you aren’t physically strong enough, you are constantly considered weak. If you don’t perform well at traditionally masculine tasks or don’t particularly gravitate toward structured trades, and…
Are BlaQueerness And Masculinity Compatible?
by Tabias Olajuawon BlaQueer community members, scholars, artists, lovers and griots have long discussed the effects of normative masculinities on our livelihoods and our struggles with and against the hegemonic portrayal of maleness. While (white) maleness is often defined and…
Whom We Decide To Lay With And Love Is Political: An Interview With “No Fats, No Femmes” Director Jamal T. Lewis.
What does it mean to be "attracted” to someone? What does it mean to find a person desirable? With whom do we want to have sex and why? How do we know a person is beautiful? Are our attractions unchangeable and…
Choosing Queer: I Was Not Born This Way, And That’s Ok.
By Hari Ziyad I donât remember the first time I found a boy attractive. I do know that in my earliest memories, when I was 4 or 5, this attraction felt natural and innate. I know, too, that there was…
Brother To Brother: Kindling A Fire That Heals (Pt. 4)
*This the last segment of a four part series, between myself and Tabias Olajuawon of Blaqueerflow. After witnessing weeks of violence birthed from white supremacies, coupled with bursts of queer victories, we decided to create a healing space together where…